Different people have different principles and bottom lines. In interpersonal communication, understanding each other's principles and bottom lines can make the relationship between people more harmonious. Among the twelve constellations, different constellations also have different principles. Let’s take a look at Teacher Tang’s analysis on how to live in harmony with the twelve constellations and avoid stepping on their minefields.
Scorpio: Breaking trust is the bottom line
Scorpio does not trust others easily. If they trust others, they will confide in them. Once betrayed, cheated or betrayed, the relationship will be severed. Scorpios have a strong desire to control, but when they meet someone who is more controlling than them, they will react violently. If you step on their bottom line, they usually react quite violently, such as instantly changing their face, becoming aloof, and embarrassing you in public, etc. Although Scorpio is strong on the outside, they are very sensitive on the inside and need to be taken seriously and understood. Expressing gratitude and appreciation in a timely manner will make Scorpios willing to pay for you. If you do not respect their efforts and praise and thank others for their greatness in front of them, it is a very vain behavior for Scorpios.
Gemini: It is wise to correct in private
Although Geminis are easy-going and joking on the surface, they actually care about their own image and status, so never correct them in public. them. If being corrected in public means that you are quarreling with them, they will pretend to be indifferent on the surface, but in fact they will be very angry inside and start to challenge you from then on. Emotionally, Gemini likes responsive objects, and will try their best to attract the attention of those who ignore them. Because they cannot stand the feeling of being blacklisted by others or being denied. If you want to attract Gemini, you can correct and remind them privately, and they will be very grateful that you did not embarrass them in public!
Aries: Please pay attention to my bottom line
Pisces: The bottom line is always changing
Pisces are actually very easy to be stepped on, because they seem to be surrounded by landmines. But sometimes they don't know why they are upset. It may be because they don't know why they are angry. So Pisces often think they have a good temper, but others think they have a bad temper. Pisces' bottom line may change, and sometimes even they themselves don't know what their bottom line is. Pisces are sometimes naive and sometimes sophisticated, making it difficult for people to understand whether they are smart or stupid and good people. They actually have a selfless side and will do their best to be considerate. Pisces themselves may also need to better understand their own bottom line and principles, and learn to express their emotions and thoughts.
Sagittarius: Kind jokes are allowed< /p>
The bottom line of Sagittarius is not easy to touch. They usually show a good temper and are relatively receptive to joking. You will find that Sagittarius will laugh at themselves. Joking about his height, appearance or personal characteristics will not mind others using these as material for jokes. As long as they are not excessive, personal attacks or jokes that are too stupid, Sagittarius himself can easily get over it. However, Sagittarius cannot accept being provoked and bullied. If it is a malicious joke, they may stand up to show their boundaries and resist. If Sagittarius is angry, they will establish their own bottom line and express their disgust towards you.
Aquarius: The bottom line is different every day
Aquarius has always been a little different from everyone else. Sometimes what you think is not the point actually steps on the bottom line of Aquarius. Therefore, when getting along with Aquarius, you have to think in reverse and operate. Aquarius is a zodiac sign that values feelings, so the bottom line may look different every day. Just stay calm when dealing with them and don't make too much of a fuss. Of course, he also likes to be objective and correct, allowing himself to be a bystander. In this state, Aquarius is less likely to be stepped on the bottom line. When someone who cares about him approaches him, he will tell him seriously.The other party's own opinions and levels actually require careful listening and dialogue.
Leo: It depends on the level of confidence whether to explode
The lion has only two reactions when the bottom line is stepped on: one is patience, and the other is super gorgeous rage. The key here depends on whether he has confidence. If he is confident, he will lose his temper, letting you know clearly that you have stepped on his bottom line. If you are not confident, he will measure whether he has the confidence to be angry with you. If he wants to continue to hang out or is still a soldier, he will not dare to be angry and will appear very humble. Leo usually slowly builds up his own strength and self-confidence in the process of accumulating expertise. When he has confidence, he will slowly establish his own rules and regain his dominance. Leo is actually very afraid of being disliked or not accepted by others, so he usually swallows his tongue and endures it until he builds up his confidence.
Capricorn: Step on me when I am upset
Capricorns may not seem easy to mess with, but it’s not an exaggeration to call them the kings of patience. After all, they are very hard-working, not to mention angry? Capricorns do not necessarily have a miserable life, but they tend to make themselves miserable. They have deep insecurities, so they will always push themselves to move forward. Therefore, the bottom line for Capricorn is not to badmouth him when he feels insecure. For example, if he is already troubled by work and you tell him "no flowers will last forever," you should comfort him and tell him that he It will be red for thousands of days and red for ten thousand days. In addition, Capricorn actually thinks that he is very good at being a good person, because he is always polite. If you say to him when he is pessimistic: YouIf you don't change his personality, you will be dead. Then you will really have stepped on his bottom line. He will gradually move away from you and stop meeting and contacting you.
Virgo: Bottom lines are everywhere
When a virgin is tolerant, she will tell you directly: "I am tolerant of you." This is his bottom line. He would often speak out his bottom line and make it public, making everyone think that he was a locomotive, difficult to get along with, and that anything could easily cross his bottom line. When you get along with a virgin again, you can ask the virgin the first time. For example, if you visit his space for the first time, you can ask him: Do you want to wear slippers? Which cup can be used? Wait, a virgin will be more tolerant of those who don't know, and I hope you show respect for him and understand his bottom line. However, Virgo is actually a zodiac sign that is strict with itself and lenient with others. Sometimes others can't, but they have various excuses to rationalize the same behavior themselves.
Libra: The number of mistakes is the focus of anger
Libra has always liked peace, hates conflict, and does not like to make things ugly, so he will respond gracefully. However, when you offend him by stimulating him again and again, you are challenging his bottom line. The number of times you do something wrong is what matters. When he thinks you have done something wrong too many times, he will get angry. Don't think that Libra doesn't like fighting. When they start fighting seriously, they will fight with you, collect all the evidence, and see you in court. Libra is quite able to put himself in someone else's shoes, so he will give face to the other person, but don't think that the face he gives him means that he is easy to bully. His bottom line is quite clear and untouchable. Libras are actually very elegant and terrifying when angry. Cold violence is a method they are quite good at.
Cancer: Family members cannot be harmed
Cancer cannot tolerate a person's bad intentions. He inherently does not trust human nature. If you show your evil side, you will Make him feel that the world is not beautiful and then punish you. For Cancer, family is their bottom line. If he is hurt, he can endure it, but once he hurts his beloved family, he will stand up to resist and put you on trial. , attack you. As a member of the founding constellation, Cancer is also very strong and backbone, and will not allow others to hurt their important family members. Cancer is very willing to face the world with a gentle attitude. When you poke him If the bottom line is reached, his gentleness will disappear without a trace. He will try his best to stay away from the harm of bad people and package himself with a hard shell.
Taurus: Can’t accept being disrupted Rhythm
Taurus’ bottom line That is, his own rhythm and plans cannot be disrupted. He has his own rhythm of life to live, and he doesn’t like others to set goals or guide him, and he doesn’t like others to control his plans. If you interrupt his planning, Taurus Will be very angry. On the surface, you will see a Taurus who is calm on the outside, but inside they may be an active volcano. He may explode on social media instead of in front of you. You never know. You have angered him. At this time, you have to find out through the people close to him. If you pull it again, he will dislike smooth people. If you get promoted step by step because of your smoothness, you will become a Taurus. A thorn in his side, he will definitely entertain you behind his back, because if you destroy the so-called "good people will be rewarded with good things, bad people will be punished with bad things" in his life, he will make you bad people will be punished with bad things. This is his bottom line.