Every Venusaspect has a beautiful love story. They have different appearances, but they are working hard to prove love to us. The presence. Some people are slow to love, but it doesn’t mean that their love is not profound. Some people are passionate, and it doesn’t mean that they are not long-lasting. Whether they are presumptuous or restrained are what love looks like, but they are not all it looks like. We allow love to have different expressions. .
Whether it has been sweet or heartbreaking, fortunately, you have seen love.
Venus and Earth Aspects: Companionship is the longest confession of love
The leader of the restraint faction undoubtedly recommends the Venus and Earth Aspects first.
The metal and earth aspects are often affected by the family of origin. Some people's fathers have been absent for a long time. In their native families, Metal and Saturn people have not learned the correct way to love. They often fall into low self-esteem, thinking that they are not worthy of being loved, or that they have to reach a certain level of excellence to be "worthy" of love.
Golden-Turk people even have a very distorted view of love: love means one party gives and the other receives.
They unconsciously depreciate themselves and cannot believe that they can get love. Therefore, when receiving love, they naturally cannot give timely feedback because they will think about whether they have misunderstood or not. The other party does not understand the true self, so he gives wrong expressions, is afraid of being rejected, and is afraid that after getting along with him, he will still be the one who is abandoned.
What's more, in order to protect himself, he treats all good intentions with indifference. When the other party gives up, he will clearly say: I guessed it, he really doesn't love me.
It is precisely because of this fear that the expression of love by Venus people is slow and hesitant. In other words, a child who has not experienced love well does not know what love isLooks like. But we can still feel that Venus-Saturn people need love, and given their slowness and fear, the love they want often takes a long time.
Runyu, the second male lead in "Fragrant Honey" has a self-confession, which can well explain the mentality of the native people: It is okay to love me lightly, but love me for a long time. The road to impressing a Metal-Saturn person may be a bit long and requires some patience, but once he identifies you, he will value every effort you make. He has gone through a long period of self-persuasion, and after accepting this love, he will naturally do his best to love you. Don't laugh at my staggering running, it's because I want to give you the best love.
Golden natives do not express their love directly, but that does not mean that they are not passionate. He believes that love and time are not mutually exclusive. As time goes by, his love will become stronger. Venus natives prefer love that can withstand the test of time. He may love clumsily, but his love remains the same. Whole-heartedly.
SaturnAlthough it always escalates the difficulty of problems, this kind of love is not less profound. Jinturen is the most popular "chasing wife in the crematorium" protagonist in romance novels.Only after experiencing separation can you discover the love in your heart. When a Venus-Saturn person truly understands what love looks like, he will know how to respond to the other person. Love that has been washed away by time must have the longest lasting light.
Gold and Neptune aspect: Welcome to my sea
Under the packaging of Neptune, the love of Venus and Neptune people always has some fantasy color added to it. He loves restrainedly in real life, but loves wildly and freely in his own little world. When falling in love with a person from the Golden Sea, there is often a doubt: Does he love me, or his imaginary partner?
We often say that we don’t even talk about long-distance love, but for Jin Hai and Jin Tian, a certain degree of spatial distance is just their ideal love state. Jintian needs physical distance, and Jinhai needs a sense of ambiguity in the soul, so that they can support their boundless imagination.
Jinhai people are good at gilding their love. He can weave all kinds of beautiful dreams for his partner. He is probably the first person to paint his own cake. If he gets too close to the real couple, it will shatter his image of the perfect partner, which leads to a very paradoxical phenomenon:
The way to make the love of Jinhai people last long is to maintain ambiguity. .
But from a negative perspective, Jinhai people do have too high expectations (or expect too much "beauty"), and they have an evasive mentality towards real problems. When faced with many things that do not meet his expectations, He will choose to pretend it doesn't exist.
Two people fall in love without fussing over everything, and there is one person who has unlimited filters for you. This is also a kind of romance.
But in the relationship between the sexes, this "rarely confused" way of dealing with it is sometimes a kind of wisdom, and sometimes it is another kind of harm.
I think Jin Hai's restraint is probably reserved for himself. He restrains himself from overly exploring the other person's behavior, restrains himself from repeatedly evaluating whether the relationship is worth it, and even restrains some of his dissatisfaction, but Show off your partner's love for you wantonly.
He did not want to escape reality, but the real world did make him a little uneasy. He chose to return to his own small world to heal himself and continue to live a happy life in reality. Jinhai people hope to be a People with poor memories can forget all the bad things but keep the good memories.
Our world needs filters to package it. A world where only original cameras exist will be more or less cruel. If there is no way to retreat, how can we remember the beauty in life? How to develop the courage to return to the world. Therefore, Jin Hai people seem to have a sense of "escaping from the world", but this is just a way for them to enter the world, and the same is true for love.
If you love Jinhai people, you must not resist his invitation and go to that virtual little world to have a look. In fact, what is collected there are all the little beauties you once had. Those bubbles floating in the air are like A magnifying glass will refract your love clearly.
Jinhairen’sLove is not about being immersed in your own world, nor is it about abandoning your own world for you, but it is about dragging you into his sea of love.
Venus and Pluto phase: The deepest feelings are when emotions are difficult to balance
The love between Venus and Pluto people must be unforgettable. And the most profound love must be the one that is hard to reconcile.
What kind of love movies and TV dramas do you recall that impressed you the most? Many people’s answers may be tragedies.
Why are we willing to watch tragedies? Because failure to love and regret for life are the best way to experience the depth of love. Because gray hair and old beauty can best describe the changes in things and people. Because passing by, The most painful thing is to look at each other and not stay together. We like to look for the male and female protagonists in the tragedies of film and television dramas as the only evidence of each other, and the people of Venus and Pluto have directly implemented this behavior pattern into real life.
The needs of Venus and Pluto people for relationships are profound enough, because deep enough means they love enough. Being ordinary will make Venus and Pluto people unable to feel whether love is real. Venus and Pluto people are afraid of being betrayed. Abandoning, he wants to always be sure that he is the type of person who will be firmly chosen, just like the heroine in the novel. Even if she is framed, there is still a hero who chooses to believe her.
In fact, the hatred between the country and the family in the novel is difficult to reproduce in reality. The only thing that can compete with this kind of profound love is probably the obstruction from the people around you, so it is easy for the people of Jin and Ming to Falling into an unfavorable relationship, thinking that you can draw deep love from it. However, the harder you work to prove love, the more it will deviate from the original intention. Venus and Pluto always seem to be related to "unrequited love", and the ending is often unsatisfactory.
Venus and Pluto people always seem to be in difficult relationships. They hope to have a deep relationship and hope that their partner will always pay attention to them, but they cannot maintain such a strong relationship for too long, especially for Venus and Pluto people with difficult aspects. They are very resistant to commitment in relationships. But just like metal and earth, the more difficult the love issue, the greater the change it will bring to us.
The reason why people in Jin and Ming dynasties often find themselves in troubled times is because they have been searching for the bottom of love: What is love?
They are not afraid to face true love and are honest with each other in intimate relationships. They are all digging into the truth of emotional problems. He is like a child who is eager for knowledge. Although he is always hitting the wall, he Still trying to find out the answer: If I don’t know what love is, how can I love?
So they will control, question, and use various methods to find answers even if they hurt each other and themselves.
After such in-depth exploration, the person with Venus and Pluto is the easiest person to sublimate love, because he will understand the essence of love better than anyone else. He will understand that he must first love himself before he can love others. And after experiencing pain, I still hold your hand, not because you love me, but because I love you.
Golden and Pluto people need to understand in relationships that pain is not the destination of intimacy, love is.
Before expecting the love of others, you must first learnLove yourself. Venus and Pluto people always hope to be the first person chosen by their partner, but in the process of hurting yourself again and again, you gave up on yourself first. Love is not a perfect fit with another person, but helps you find the lost pieces of yourself. Those past pains are songs written in the shadows.
The best love for Venus and Pluto people is to let the sunshine shine in.
