The family of origin not only determines the starting point of a person's life, but also affects the subsequent development of life to a great extent. The pain caused by the family of origin often lasts a lifetime. For some people who are born with poor horoscope configuration, not only is it a luxury to expect help from the family, but if they are not careful, they will also be dragged down. It will have a negative impact on the direction of your life.
Let’s talk about the configurations that are easily dragged down by the original family.
Saturn/Plutointhe fourthhouse
< u>AstrologyIn astrology, Saturn and Pluto are both malefic stars, and the fourth house is the house of farm and home, which represents parental discipline, family life, and inner emotions. If one of these two stars falls in a person's horoscope, it means that the relationship in the original family will not be too easy.
Saturn in astrology represents repression and contraction. People with Saturn in the fourth house often lack a sense of security and are unable to obtain warmth and care from family life. You will receive strong pressure and strict requirements from your parents, and you will be forced to take on some heavier responsibilities from an early age. Another possibility is that the poor economic situation of the original family will make such people experience the bitterness and frustration of poverty prematurely. No matter what the situation is, the atmosphere in which these people grow up is depressing and heavy.
This also makes this type of people regard interpersonal relationships and wealth or making money as the most important issues during their growth and even throughout their lives, compared with other issues. People will have a much harder time.
Because you cannot get a sense of security from your family, you will particularly hope to get it from the outside world and from other people. In order to achieve this goal, you will inevitably spend a lot of money in interpersonal interactions. But the effort is often not proportional to the gain.
At the same time, this type of people may also take on the responsibility of raising a family prematurely, and when planning their lives, they will be restrained by their families and interfered by their parents, making them unable to choose the path they really like. It is also common for such people to encounter moral kidnapping by their parents.
Since Pluto represents the power of destruction and reconstruction, when it falls in the fourth house, it will not only bring about a disharmonious family atmosphere, but also bring about some accidents that lead to family breakup, or such situations. The family in which a person grows may not be complete from the beginning.
People with Pluto in the fourth house tend to have a tense relationship with their parents, and at least one parent will bring a strong sense of oppression.
If you are a father, it may be accompanied by a sense of threat and danger that is difficult to ignore, and your childhood life will be more scary. If it is a mother, it will be accompanied by suffocating love and desire for control. She may show herself as a gentle and loving mother, but if she goes against her wishes in the slightest, she will show an extremely harsh side. In the name of love, , the reality of manipulation.
People with Saturn/Pluto in the fourth house have one thing in common, that is, they all want to escape.The native family is often trapped by various factors and cannot completely get rid of the shackles of the family.
MoonSquare Saturn/Moon Opposition Saturn
The Moon governs our emotions and emotional expression, as well as our relationship with our mother. When the moon has a negative aspect with Saturn, which represents depression, contraction, pessimism and misfortune, it will cause tension in the relationship with the mother and an unpleasant family atmosphere.
People with Moon square Saturn in their horoscopes often have higher demands from their mothers since childhood, and are unable to nourish the tender emotions of the soul from the other person, resulting in a desolate inner emotional world. Longing for love but afraid of being hurt, insecure, and not believing that unconditional love exists in the world.
Affected by their family of origin, these people tend to be depressed and pessimistic for a long time. In close relationships, they are used to suppressing their true feelings and find it difficult to communicate with their loved ones. If you are unable to break through this emotional dilemma, you are also at risk of developing depression.
People with Moon opposing Saturn in their horoscopes tend to be negative, pessimistic, and lack self-confidence because they have been denied, suppressed, and hindered by their parents since childhood. Their relationship with their parents may be difficult as adults. Relatively cold and distant.
In intimate relationships, one's own emotions will also be in a relatively depressed state, with an attitude of longing for and disbelief in happiness, thinking that it is impossible to obtain true happiness. There is also the possibility that in order to escape the shackles of the family of origin, you may hastily enter into a marriage relationship with someone who is not suitable for you. Not only will you not be able to get the sense of security you desire from the other person, but you will also Falling deeper into pain.
Although the native family cannot be chosen by oneself, even if the horoscope configuration is not good and the starting point is not high, you can break the shackles, escape the original predicament and create a new world through acquired efforts.
